Zulu King Misuzulu kaZwelithini has called for a review of lobola, saying it has become too expensive and is stopping marriages in the Zulu nation.
Speaking at the annual Reed Dance at Mashobeni Royal Palace in Pongola, the king said it pains him to see women growing old in their family homes because men cannot afford the payments.
“Our sisters are getting old sitting at home without getting married. This pains me,” said Misuzulu. “We need to review this lobola thing because it’s destroying us. Men cannot afford it, and it must be fixed.”
Researchers from the University of KwaZulu-Natal, including Dori Posel and Stephanie Rudwick, have also raised concerns.
Their studies show lobola costs delay or prevent marriage and create financial hardship, pushing couples to live together instead of formally marrying.
Traditionally, lobola was a token of appreciation to the bride’s family. But today it is often treated like a business deal. Families now demand amounts of R70,000 or more, even before wedding gifts and ceremonies like umembeso.
In the past, some high-profile lobola payments made headlines. In 2004 businessman Melusi Moyo paid R250,000 for Princess Nomkhosi, Misuzulu’s sister. Former SAA boss Khaya Ngqula once paid R3-million for his wife, Mbali Gasa.
The House of Traditional Leaders in KZN has also previously called for a review of lobola.
Image source: KZN Office of the Premier
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